I was horrified when I arrived and realized that my boyfriend and I were the only ones not wearing a mask. Somehow I'd missed the memo. If I were wearing Rihanna's see-through dress, I would have felt less exposed. But I had finally made it to this fabled event!
The very first time I entered a swingers club, I was single. Oh boy, a sex club. What was I getting myself into? I had looked at pictures of the club online and have to admit, I was really surprised at how cool it looked. Now I was even more intrigued! Okay, so I cleared the first hurdle safely and successfully.
Some argue that humans are predisposed to be promiscuous, and sleep with plenty of people. Here are some of the top reasons people become swingers. Sometimes a couple realizes they both have a strong desire to experience other sexual partners, but not for lack of loving each other or still wanting to have sex with each other. If one or both people are bisexual, then the only way they can really be satisfied is by swinging. Some couples just lose the flame, but are still best friends who care deeply about each other, lead a very satisfying life together, and feel very connected on other levels.
If you would have told me a year ago that I would one day watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I would have laughed in your face. Though my addiction had been curbed since meeting my husband, thanks to a combination of efforts buoyed by his support, would a salacious vacation reopen the wound? Why not a swingers resort? Weeks later, we arrived in Cancun in the rain.